What do you think?

SAY WHAT???!!!

Trust: the belief that somebody or something is good, sincere, and honest and will not to try to harm or trick you.

I don’t know what it is but people tend to have trust issues, it’s so bad that it is no longer seen as a problem but as a sign of caring! I don’t buy that, a relation of any kind should be based on trust, if I find myself questioning ones’ loyalty or motives then that is a problem for me.

 It simply means that I don’t trust the person, question is, what am I still doing around them? A relation without trust is doomed. You got a choice, its either you work on having that trust base or you just call it quits. Trust is like respect it is not given to you, you earn it!!! It is also easy to break it and restoring it is something else, if even possible.

Remember the saying: “love them all but trust no one?”  It is for selfish people, truth is not everyone is untrustworthy and you have to take a chance in life and trust people wholeheartedly and it’s too bad if they break that trust, move on, and trust someone else. It is a cycle like that. We are all bound to be hurt in life by the people we trust and that builds us up emotionally as people, it is somehow a learning curve. Not everyone is going to break your trust, if you have been hurt before you shouldn’t mistreat other people for the mistakes committed by previous people.

If you have been cheated on by your ex it doesn’t mean your next will do it to you, nothing sucks as much as paying for another person’s mistakes TRUST ME. Why hang out with me whilst expecting me to do something bad? That is being hypocritical, you not better than the person in which you don’t trust.

As for people who have broken other people’s trust, be it intentionally or otherwise...SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!

Trust issues need to be dealt with!!!!

My jingle bells aren’t jingling yet

Festive holiday mood begins on the very first day of December. Do you agree or AGREE? Well it has been [] days into the holiday season and I am sad to say I haven’t experienced a single day that left me in pure joy. The funny thing is I know the reason behind my feelings of sadness, want me to indulge you? I don’t see why not, sharing is said to be caring after all.

Let me start by pointing out the fact that I am not a fan of people with self-pity, why am I telling you this? You might ask. Well the lack of my jingle bells days have got everything to do with the pity I have come to have for oneself. I’ve joined the “the pity-club”, believe me when I say it exists. I even learned a lesson after joining the club, and that is to never judge people until I have actually walked a distance in their shoes. With that said, here is to the reasons for my sadness!

My pity parties have everything to do with the fact that my future is unknown. I have recently completed studying for my National Diploma in Journalism and have been filling in job seeking applications prior to my study completion and I haven’t received any feedback thus far. I bet you thinking my situation is nothing compared to anything that you’ve one or still going through but hey this is about me. I have never had to worry about something that’s beyond my control before so grant me this privilege.

We further our studies in hope for a better tomorrow and we tend to break down emotionally when it doesn’t come on the time its needed most. Ask any other university graduate waiting for that breakthrough call which will leave them employed. It is said that patience is a virtue but it really is not one of my strong points right now. I think I won’t be able to enjoy a single day from here on, not until I get that phone call asking me to come to a job interview or telling me that I should report for duty.  Thank you for reading.