SAY WHAT???!!!
Trust: the belief that somebody or something is good, sincere, and honest and will not to try to harm or trick you.
I don’t know what it is but people tend to have trust issues, it’s so bad that it is no longer seen as a problem but as a sign of caring! I don’t buy that, a relation of any kind should be based on trust, if I find myself questioning ones’ loyalty or motives then that is a problem for me.
It simply means that I don’t trust the person, question is, what am I still doing around them? A relation without trust is doomed. You got a choice, its either you work on having that trust base or you just call it quits. Trust is like respect it is not given to you, you earn it!!! It is also easy to break it and restoring it is something else, if even possible.
Remember the saying: “love them all but trust no one?” It is for selfish people, truth is not everyone is untrustworthy and you have to take a chance in life and trust people wholeheartedly and it’s too bad if they break that trust, move on, and trust someone else. It is a cycle like that. We are all bound to be hurt in life by the people we trust and that builds us up emotionally as people, it is somehow a learning curve. Not everyone is going to break your trust, if you have been hurt before you shouldn’t mistreat other people for the mistakes committed by previous people.
If you have been cheated on by your ex it doesn’t mean your next will do it to you, nothing sucks as much as paying for another person’s mistakes TRUST ME. Why hang out with me whilst expecting me to do something bad? That is being hypocritical, you not better than the person in which you don’t trust.
As for people who have broken other people’s trust, be it intentionally or otherwise...SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!
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